You know, those guys who, on arriving in any room, can simultaneously make every female heart flutter, and who collect phone numbers like I once collected episodes of The Late Show recorded onto VHS.
We’re learning how to smash the glass ceiling, find our inner tiger mother and balance high-powered careers with a happy home.Like men have done for decades, 21st-century women are finally embracing the “Alpha” within – knowing exactly what they want and stopping at nothing to get it. The Alpha female struggles to find a perfect partner.She is physically attractive, possesses a high degree of sex appeal, and probably most notably, she participated in a highly publicized celebrity sex tape that went viral. Kardashian survive any harsh criticism or scrutiny that came her way as a consequence of that sex tape, she has been involved in three very public relationships since (two of which resulted in marriage) and has legions of loyal female fans.Love her or hate her, Kim Kardashian represents many wives and mothers in the 21st Century. Kardashian had been born sometime between 18, she would have no career. If you were a woman born in the latter part of the 19th Century or early part of the 20th Century, this is how your love life and sex life would more-than-likely unfold: a) Your domineering father would have to approve of any ‘date’ you attended with a teenage boy or young man; b) That teenage boy / young man would have to engage in a conversation with your father prior to each and every date; c) Any sort of heavy-duty ‘making out’ would be frowned upon by your parents.Dating is hell, and don't let anybody tell you otherwise.
If you don't believe me, remember Sex & The City, a warts-and-all portrait of the relentless New York dating scene that seemed to me exactly like the deepest pit of Hades, only with better footwear.
Why do so many betas harbor gauzy delusions about female sexual nature?
Why are monogamously inclined traditionalists, manginas and white knighters so quick to sanctify women and paint their misbehavior in rose-colored hues while simultaneously offering unconditional support and shitlapping amen choruses for women when they accuse men of committing a litany of hackneyed misdeeds?
When the rare communication does occur, she is as nice and kind as a saint to him.
He is too smitten to recognize the hint of pity and condescension laced in her polite chat.
And engaging in sex before marriage would have been out of the question.