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And yet there were a few people in my social circle who could – to put it charitably – punch well outside of their apparent weight class.

I thought that women felt attracted to men for the same reasons that we feel attracted to women. I didn’t realize that it was possible to make beautiful women feel attracted to me for reasons OTHER than looks, so if they rejected me, I simply assumed, That’s all I knew because I was another brainwashed modern man who believed the junk I saw in TV and magazine advertisements.

Even though I saw below-average looking guys with beautiful women, I didn’t see that as real.

Surprising (to me, anyway) was that the second most-important thing to you was “meeting men in real life”.

Here’s a sampling of some of your questions: Personally, I don’t know the difference between the “real man” of which these women speak and a “fake man”, but I am hearing an outcry for the one place that you can go to meet the man of your dreams.

Since starting this blog in 2007, I’ve answered hundreds of your questions, clarified my thinking about dating and relationships, and – somehow, some way – became a husband and a father. And in case you didn’t know, most of what I do as a dating coach does NOT take place on this blog.

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