” This questions is a VERY high value question, because not only is it a unique thing to ask in a conversation, but it also communicates to him that respect is high on YOUR list of characteristics.His answer will reveal to YOU how he looks at women, what qualities he looks for in a woman and what he likes and dislikes – all without you asking him twenty different questions to put together the same answer.
This also creates attraction for a man because it shows him that YOU are not too taken with him to realize that HE has to meet YOUR quality standards.
Christian Carter writes that this is a “fun and subtle kind of tension building” (Christian Carter, Catch Him and Keep him, p 205) that helps lead to sexual tension and attraction for a man.
These three qualities are very high on the list of what really DOES create attraction for a man.
One of the questions Christian Carter tells his readers to ask a man is “What kind of woman do you respect?
This kind of talk immediately spells alarm signals for the guy you are on a date with.
See, it’s not that I’m asking you to bury all of your insecurities or problems and pretend they don’t exist.
I clicked on the link–“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes Women Make”–and found myself swimming through simple, one-sentence direct-mail style paragraphs, like: feeling in your stomach? And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. ” Of course, the worst part wasn’t that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn’t have done it in the first place… Christian Carter offers to tell women how to avoid the ten fatal mistakes most women make with men, or how to engage and attract a man right after you meet in person, if you are so good as to enter your credit card number to receive his e-book.
I was vulnerable to that horrible ad because I recently heard something along the lines of “I’m just looking for something casual.” Somehow I find that impossible not to take personally.
Our Christian Carter review: Christian Carter, bestselling author of the book “Catch Him and Keep Him” talks about one little mistake that so many women make on dates.
To quote Christian Carter in his own words: “Don’t make the guy feel that you are a pessimist. This is something I talk about on my seminars when I stress the importance of not bringing your emotional baggage to the first date. Quite simply, anything that instantly reveals a level of neediness or insecurity that is immediately going to turn a guy off.
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