"There are great and funny books out there, like Steve Harvey's 'How to Think Like a Man', or the one written about 'Settling', but there are no books that really hit the nail on the head on how to figure out moving from your 20's, when one can basically 'date up a storm' or go from one relationship to the next, to the 30's at which point we are getting serious and want a longer term thing." It's the 'age old' quandary for women: we have our biology to contend with. Connie found this idea not only relieving, but hysterical.
Since we clearly need all the help we can get, I resolve to investigate. If you guys have a great time, you're both left wanting more." —Greg G." /"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there." Given that much of my practice is filled with women in their 20's and 30's who are either falling in, out of, or whom are on the 'lookout' for love, I often serve as a 'relationship coach' where the whole 'mating and dating' thing' is up for analysis. Hey, it's your dating and mating life, you get to pick the variables.Yesterday in fact, Connie, (not her real name for obvious reasons), was complaining that there doesn't seem to be any one book that single handedly deals with the prototypic New York City, or 'Urban Woman' looking for tips on mating. FIGURE OUT YOUR NON-NEGOTABLES, YOUR NEGOTIABLES, AND THE TRADERS.The boom mic pokes in and out of visibility a few times.
Right now all three of my girls are fairly obsessed with watching reruns of "Sex and the City".
No checking dating sites 24/7 or hitting the club in uncomfortable dresses just to hook up. Why waste time spilling your guts if it’s not going to last past the second or third date? They’ll keep the conversation going and you just jump in when you want.
It’s simple, it’s free and if it doesn’t work out, you get to blame everyone else. It’s entertaining and you’re not constantly being stared at as a guy waits for you to say something mind-blowing.
As I watch the shows with them, (and marvel at the phenomenal writing!
), I wonder: "What is the dating show equivalent for today?
Try their guide to dating and see how it works for you. Your friends and family have been dreaming of the day when you’ll come to them and say, “Feel free to set me on a blind date.” Just like that, you have your own personal dating network. Simple really is better and it takes a lot less time. It’s a fun place to get a great burger and be the center of attention. The idea is to have fun and learn a little about each other.