The guy or girl playing hard to get will still give off those tell tale signs that we just mentioned.You will feel encouraged and even though they are playing hard to get, you can still talk to them and approach them. The same premise applies in sports--- if you want to win, you must not only play the game well but you must see yourself as a winner from the onset.
Early-stage TMI is a major turn-off for most males.
"Men feel disoriented when you disclose intimate details too soon," says Kreidman.
Well, it might help to first figure out which side the players are on in this big game of indifference.
A person who is playing hard to get will more than likely have other guys or girls that are interested in them.
Absence creates anticipation and a feeling of "If I don't see her now, I'll die." When he calls, "let your voice mail pick up now and then," says Sherry Argov, author of .
"It shows him that you're worth the wait and effort.Like John Travolta’s character Danny Zuko in Grease, the men of today (and yesteryear) all labour through the trials of dating under the misguided notion that “playing it cool” gets the girl. Well, if the dating game today is anything to go by, then apparently we do. Following “The Rules” that state that you cannot seem too interested in a guy is probably the wrong way to go about getting your man. Do we really think that “treat ’em mean to keep ’em keen” is really all it’s cracked up to be?But the fact that they still give you some kind of encouraging signal suggests that you are the one they want to get “caught” by.But if you find yourself in the situation of not knowing whether they will even answer your calls, then the chances are, you are not their type.We must not date with the idea that one person suffers a loss while the other one wins.